You keep having the same fight. Different topic, same shape. You have talked about it. You have both promised. Then it happens again.
Most couples coaching in Singapore starts with "tell me about yourselves". Mine starts with your two birth charts. Before we meet, I read how each of you loves, what each of you needs, and where the two rub. You each get that in writing. The coaching starts from the pattern, not from zero.
I am Dave Gor, a relationship coach for couples in Singapore. I have coached couples for five years. Here is what we do.
If this is you, keep reading. If there has been an affair, if there is abuse, or if one of you is not sure you want to stay, see a counsellor first. This page tells you how to decide.
Each of you enters your birth date, time and place at checkout. I read each chart on its own. Then I read the two together.
Within 1 to 2 days, each of you gets your own report as a PDF by email. Your own chart first: how you are built, how you love. Then the couple reading: what each of you needs, the fight you keep having, and why each of you plays your part in it. Plain English. No jargon. Nobody reads the other's file unless you choose to share it.
If you want to go further, I spend two to three hours with each of you alone. Then we meet together. We go straight to the pattern. Spotting your trigger before it fires. Saying what you need without blame. Listening to understand, not to answer. Reading your partner's actions with good intent. You leave with one technique for your most common argument and a practice for the week.
What you do now: buy the Couple Synastry. Both sets of birth details go in at checkout.
You do not need to believe in astrology. You need two accurate birth times. Judge it by whether the reports describe your fights.
Getting married? Many couples look for pre marriage counselling in Singapore. What I offer is pre-marriage coaching from both charts. You see the pattern before it has had five years to set.
Same two reports. Then one session together: money, family, how each of you handles stress, what each of you needs when it gets hard. You walk in knowing the shape of your future fights, and how to stop them early.
If you are single, the work starts with one chart: how you choose, how you love, what you need. I coach you on the pattern first. Then, if you want it, I introduce you to people whose chart fits yours. That is what a dating coach in Singapore should do, and it is on its own page: Matchmaking in Singapore.
Read my story: About Dave
You see the full price before you book, in SGD or RMB. No surprises in the room. See the Reports page.
A coach changes what you do with each other. I find the pattern in your two charts, show it to you in plain words, and give you one thing to practice each week. Then we check whether it worked. Progress is measured at home, not in the room.
No. Counselling works through pain and the past with a trained counsellor. Coaching works on what you do next. If there has been an affair, abuse, or a mental health condition is shaping daily life, see a counsellor first. Here is how to decide.
Reports only is fine. Many couples read them, talk at home, and that is enough. Coaching is for when the pattern is older than your patience. You can add it later; the reports stay yours.
Yes. Each of you gets your own file, and a report built on someone's chart without their knowledge becomes a weapon, not a bridge. If your partner is not ready, start with your own Natal Reading. You can change half of a loop on your own, and partners often join once they see the difference.
As PDFs, by email, one each, within 1 to 2 days of checkout. In English or Simplified Chinese, chosen at checkout. If you added coaching, the booking link comes with the reports.
No. Give me two accurate birth times and read the reports. Judge them by whether they describe your fights. Most couples say they do.
Yes. The four reports and one session together, before the wedding. See the section above.
Both. The charts do not care where you sit. Sessions are by video call; in person in Singapore can be arranged. Long-distance couples do the sessions each from their own home, and the practices work by message and call.
Buy the Couple Synastry. Both sets of birth details go in at checkout. Two reports in 1 to 2 days. If marriage coaching in Singapore has felt like talking in circles, this is the part that was missing.
Buy the Couple Synastry. Both sets of birth details go in at checkout. Two reports in 1 to 2 days. If marriage coaching in Singapore has felt like talking in circles, this is the part that was missing.
